Happy 5 year Blogiversary to me!!!

Hello Ndi Nkem! Yes, you read that right. My blog is 5 years old today. Ah! Can you believe it? If my blog was a human being, she will be in Nursery 3. I’m so proud of how far I have come. I started this blog during a lonely time of my life. I was…

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My Breast ironing story

Hello Ndi nkem!! Hope you are all doing well. This week has been so hectic for me. My sisters returned from Nigeria. My youngest sister is starting college and I’ve been doing the running around preparing for the start of school. This pseudo motherhood life is not easy please. My baby girl lifestyle is not…

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Weirdest Medical School Interview- #RTHM

Hello Ndi Nkem, Hope you are all doing great this New Year. Are you still following your resolutions, or are your resolutions following you 😂😂? Anyways, today, I have come to do amebo for you. I have sweet gist for una. So the majority of you know that I am applying to medical school. I…

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It happened: I got into medical school!!- #RTHM

Happy New Year! Welcome to 2021 ndi nkem “my people” Yes, you read the title right. Your girl, Adabekee, is going to medical school. I cannot begin to describe the joy I feel even right now, though I have known for two weeks now. I keep going back to my acceptance letter to make sure…

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The worst part of my Igbo Christmas

Although I miss the village, seeing my relatives and eating all the good food that comes with the season, I do not miss the stress of running around the kitchen trying to entertain the multitudes of guests that visit our home.

7 things I am grateful for on my birthday.

Hello Ndi nkem! Hope you haven’t missed me too much. Today is my birthday, and amongst all my emotions, gratitude remains the top. This year has given as much as it has taken, but I want to speak on the blessings the year has brought. I’m grateful for the gift of life. The year 2020…

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Supporting friends in abusive relationships is exhausting.

Hello Ndi nkem! I know you haven’t seen me for over a month. I apologize. I don’t want this going awol to be a pattern but sometimes, wetin man go do (what can one do)? The situation in Nigeria plus other personal reasons have slowed my writing down, but I’m trying to get back on…

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