So you have been dating this person for a while. You already built a future with them in your head: 2 kids, a dog and a house with a white picket fence. Now you are realizing that the said future is only going to be in your head. That perfect life you envisioned is going to shreds.
In honor of World Doula week, I want to share some of the things you will always find in my doula bag. #Worlddoulaweek
Dating is inherently discriminatory. We remove people from our dating people for any and every reason…who we choose to partner up with is a deeply personal thing, shaped by many many factors. If I chose not to date a poor man, am I brokeophobic?
Yes, we can speak about the role oppression plays in the lives of marginalized people, but why do we negate individual responsibility a lot.
Hello my people!!! How is everyone doing? Thank you so much for the kind words I received from my last post. Sharing my breast ironing story was no ease feat for me, but I am glad it was received with love and encouragement. I hope to continue sharing such vulnerable stories, and help change the…
Although I miss the village, seeing my relatives and eating all the good food that comes with the season, I do not miss the stress of running around the kitchen trying to entertain the multitudes of guests that visit our home.
Hello Ndi nkem! I know you haven’t seen me for over a month. I apologize. I don’t want this going awol to be a pattern but sometimes, wetin man go do (what can one do)? The situation in Nigeria plus other personal reasons have slowed my writing down, but I’m trying to get back on…
As you can see, we Igbo women love to compliment our men with references to their ability. We look at their physique, their pocket, and their strength.